Luke Gacusan: Keep on. You'll be more prepared for a family if you have that education going for you.
Amina Motzer: Many guys approach the knowledge of seduction the same way an unknowledgeable guy approaches playing the guitar or learning a new trade such as a science skill. They try it for a few seconds, fail shamefully (like EVERYONE does) and then gives up and says he'll never be good at it and wishes he was like "that other guy".You're starting late. This means it will be a LOT harder for you since other guys have started quite early (mid-teens). You don't even know what works and what doesn't, let alone why they are different. For example, probably you have no idea WHY it's such a bad idea to give out your phone number to a woman at a bar (it's not what you think)...Look up the Internet for stuff like "speed seduction". There are many variations of it: some concentrate on "inner game", others concentrate on the technical aspect of it (e.g. street pickups), ot! hers on how you look, others on how you act (being funny and cheeky), others on doing pickups and others still merely on recognizing which women are right/wrong for you (without focusing too much on the actual seduction). Some are similar, others more "classic". There's something for each personal style, just like the sense of humor. Some are downright trash, some are given by men and geared to men based on FACTS instead of opinions (guys that DO go out and pick up hundreds of women and KNOW what works and what doesn't). Women (and too many men) that claim to understand love and give advice about it, most times, end up doing more harm than good because they're giving the advice from THEIR perspective; the advice are mostly with good intentions, but severely misguided and based on fiction (movies). But they all have something in common: you HAVE to approach women. They will NOT approach you, at least not in the first 500 pickups.You should not be ashamed about learning seduc! tion. If done correctly and with class, it's fun and flatterin! g for both the seducer and the seduced. It is, after all, how we pick our sex/life partners. The Kamasutra for example is not a mere sex-manual, but rather a "manual for the burgeoning gentleman", although you may recognize it to be rather out-of-date for the current days in some aspects (although some things change little in thousands of years, no matter how much we like to think how much more evolved we are today). Women buy all sorts of magazines about "100 ways to seduce your man". It's idiotic to think that a MAN is supposed to magically "know" the techniques of seduction that WORK and those that do NOT work. The DRIVE, the STAMINA, the AMBITION, the AUDACITY to try is not something that can be taught (either you have it at ready or you have to dig very deep to bring it out!) but the TECHNIQUES and the REASONS for which actions work, those can be taught....Show more
Agustina Stimmel: If you want to do it you should definitely go for it. One of my friends at unive! rsity started studying when he was 24. So I don`t see that there`s a problem. And I don`t think that you will have problems with graduating at the age of 30 or 32. You are still young then and still have chances on a career and a family
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